Badd Ass Catt

Callie is doing really well and has adjusted to a life in the desert that only allows her to be walked outside with a leash. There are just too many predators in this wilderness area that could harm her. She seems to know it and has accepted her loss of freedom and not to be able to climb her beloved olive trees. When we take her to the beach where we have the RV parked, Callie will be allowed to explore outside once again. In the meantime, I am taking lots of photographs and appreciating the abundant wildlife that either call Anza- Borrego Desert State Park home, or are just passing through.

Another Year has PASSED!

Yikes, the time is flying by so quickly. All is good with Callie and us. We finished a wonderful trip to Vegas to meet our daughter and to camp at Valley of Fire and Death Valley. Callie got a spooky, bright red, furry tarantula for Christmas and we are back home in the desert once again. It is a big, beautiful world out there in spite of the government shutdown. We hauled all of our trash out of Death Valley when we left and most people were doing the same. Happy New Year to all of you and may this year be filled with peace, joy, and happiness.

Joan and Callie

Peace and Joy be with You!

It has been a long time since I have posted an update on Callie. She is doing really well and loves this desert house with a view of a pond. She spends hours in the evening watching bats swoop back and forth and in the morning she has hummingbirds and a beautiful male Vermilion Flycatcher that is absolutely gorgeous. Coyotes head out in the evening to hunt and return when the sun starts to climb in the sky. We are planning on hitting the road again during Christmas and may go to Death Valley again. Thank you all for checking in and may the holidays be joyous and full of peace and joy. Happy New Year too!

Living a Life of Gratitude

Happy Thanksgiving to all of you reading this blog post. I have much to be grateful for and one of my greatest pleasures is to share my experiences of traveling with Callie the cat and my husband in our 24 ft Class C RV. We have recently parked the RV at the Riviera RV and Mobile Home Park in Encinitas, California to give ourselves a rest from being on the road and to enjoy our home in Borrego Springs for the winter. The desert has some of the best weather in the country now and to stay there for weeks at a time is a luxury instead of an inferno!

For Thanksgiving, we decided to go to a local restaurant called: Captain Kenos that provides a meal of turkey, mashed potatoes, candied yams, carrots, corn, stuffing, hot buttered roll, and pumpkin pie to the needy, lonely, and homeless. They welcome all with open doors and arms, and a shout out of Happy Thanksgiving with big smiles on their faces, as guests enter to partake of a delicious feast. If you can afford it, a $3.00 donation is warmly welcomed, but otherwise, it is totally free, no questions asked. We made a small donation so that others could eat, and then sat down to a community dinner that was served until 6:00. The doors had opened up at noon and there was a steady stream of people lined up at the entranceway receiving a much needed meal.

People of all walks of life, most of them poor, stood patiently with plates in their hands, now had a warm and cozy place to eat and to be served by respectful and cheerful volunteers with Christmas lights twinkling merrily and rock music playing in the background. The owner actually sat at the bar and chatted with his guests as if he were rubbing elbows with the rich and famous. It was such a welcoming sight that I just had to go up and speak with him briefly in order to thank him for his generosity. Gerry Sova, the owner also provides another feast for those in need on Christmas Day and he has been doing this for over 36 years!

Michael and I then drove over to Moonlight Beach to watch the beautiful sun set in the Pacific Ocean as people played volleyball and sat around hot, roaring campfires. We listened to Bob Dylan on the radio and reflected on past Thanksgivings we had shared together. Our first date was 41 years ago on November 6th and our first Thanksgiving, Michael braved visiting my entire family of 6 sisters, their boyfriends, 1 brother, and my mother and father and paternal grandmother. He survived that gathering and then we went over to meet his parents and 2 brothers and their girlfriends. And here we are today, 41 years later, still miraculously married and with an adult daughter and an adorable cat we are very fond of.

Marriage is not for the meek of heart. It takes a great deal of love, grit, forgiveness, patience, respect and most importantly, only one of you can be angry at the other at one, single, time. If you survive young adulthood together and merge into middle age and then on to becoming senior citizens, your hormones are no longer raging but you now have aches and pains, disease and the joy of getting old. I can honestly say though that this is becoming some of the best times I have shared with my husband. We have a rich and vast history together and have been through more than most couples would have tolerated. So, I am feeling particularly grateful for hanging in there, at least it is how I feel today; it is always subject to change. Smile!

So Happy Thanksgiving to all of you. Give thanks if you can, for LIFE can be incredibly difficult. It waxes and wanes though, and tomorrow could bring either hardship or joy, pleasure or pain. The act of being alive means to live, get out there and live your life to the fullest. This is not a dress rehearsal! Thanks for reading my blog.

A New Camera

I celebrated my 63rd birthday last month and my husband bought me a new Nikon D850. I have been practicing all day today and cannot believe how fabulous it is. My 500px photography site has taken up a great deal of my time lately but I just wanted my readers to know that Callie is doing well and loves it here. The pond is an ever-ready source of entertainment and she can sit outside on the balcony and lie in the sun. We will be heading to the beach on Saturday and will be staying in the RV for a couple of weeks. I have to go through eye surgery again and this time, I will take super good care of myself.

Upstairs Downstairs

We have moved into our rental property at Ram’s Hill because we haven’t been able to sell it and we want to simplify. Our house with the incredible sunrises at De Anza is now up for sale instead. We have the RV at the Riviera Mobile Home and RV Park stored in Encinitas and the goal is to once again go back and forth from desert to beach. When the heat is too much here, we will pack up and go to the coolness of the beach. And when the beach feels too cold and damp, we will pack up and head back to the sunny desert. I feel so fortunate and grateful for how everything has worked out. It hasn’t been an easy three years for me.

Callie under no circumstances can ever be outdoors without a leash snapped on here at Ram’s Hill. At De Anza, she could at least climb her beloved olive trees under supervision and after her playtime, she would come back inside willingly. Here, the coyotes and predators are so numerous, that she would be in grave danger if I left her alone for even a few minutes! A neighbor told us last night that a mountain lion was captured on his webcam being chased by a bobcat several years ago. There are huge owls, rattlesnakes, scorpions, black widows and the list of dangerous animals to Callie goes on and on.

Michael and I had the brainy idea this morning to move upstairs to the master bedroom since the heat has dissipated. We were trying to keep the utility costs low by staying downstairs. So I have been working all day today getting the upstairs ready for tonight. In the mean time, I am allowing Callie to hang out on the top balcony while I clean. She has an uninterrupted view of the pond, and tomorrow morning at dawn, I am hoping to watch the coyotes hunting from a different vantage point. She is safe in her element and I doubt owls could swoop down and get her because of the angle of the roof line and the rod iron fence.

The downstairs bedroom is going to be turned into Michael’s music room because he is an audiophile and it does his heart and soul good to take time off and have music blasting. That drives me nuts because I am basically an introvert and like peace and quiet. So Callie and I get to be upstairs with a fan blowing air for white noise, and he is downstairs with the stereo playing at full volume. I can feel the thump and vibration of the music through the floor but only hear muffled booms. After 41 years of being together, it is imperative that solutions be found and implemented in order to keep the peace. That way, the call for a divorce is kept at a safe distance and harmony can once agin be restored.

Are We There Yet?

Callie, Michael and I headed to the beach to hang out in the RV for a couple of days so that I could have a checkup on my eye after surgery; scar tissue has developed and I see double when I look to the left. The doctor wasn’t happy with the way it is healing and another surgery is scheduled for November 19th. I am bummed about it, but what can you do?

So we stayed for three days in the RV that is parked in Encinitas and then came back to the desert in separate cars. Callie came with me, and she is not accustomed to traveling in the BMW, so she was a little nervous and I suspect she thought she was heading to the Holiday Pet Hotel to be boarded. When we pulled into our neighborhood and she recognized where she was, she let out a yelp and howl of joy and relief and stood up in the seat and looked around with renewed excitement.

She loves it here and still can’t get enough of bat and coyote patrol. As soon as I feed her dinner, she races back to the bedroom to watch real-life Animal Planet. This morning, the coyotes came right into the backyard and were less than 5ft from the door. Callie didn’t see them, but I sure did. At least 3 handsome and quite large coyotes raced around the pond and then checked out the backyard thoroughly before scampering away in search of breakfast. They are very healthy and in their prime and Callie wouldn’t have a chance if they spotted her. They are also lightning fast and very bold, so I am just going to have to be really careful when walking her. I won’t go out until the sun is high in the sky, and will no longer walk her down by the pond.

Animal Planet

Callie is learning to go on long walks with the leash and harness every morning because there is no way that she can run free and unattended in the desert. The coyotes and raptors are so abundant here, that all Callie has to do is look out the window and see for herself ducks, herons and great white egrets being hunted at the pond behind the house. Bats swoop down in dizzying numbers at dusk and she is entertained for hours at a time. As soon as I feed her dinner, she races over to the back bedroom just in time for the show to begin. I peek in on her every once in a while and watch her peering under the drapes as her tail swishes back and forth in spasmodic jerks. She can almost taste duck and bat herself. Fortunately, I have not witnessed any kills as of yet, and I imagine that the coyotes are much more successful with mice and smaller prey.

We will not be hitting the road quite as often now that the temperature is mild here in Anza-Borrego Desert State Park. I don’t think Callie will mind at all though because she has Animal Planet playing out in real time every evening. This is almost as much fun for her as being the dash cam cat in the RV.